How to find success

How to Find Success

Failure is often misunderstood and people find it devastating that they failed. They judge themselves as a lesser person because by their terms it didn’t work. In Hypnotherapy we work with the notion that: Failure teaches us to do better.

As Samuel Beckett put it: “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”

So Failure is not a bad thing. “If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.” ― H.G. Wells.

How you deal with Failure is a mindset. So the same can be said of success.

cropped-cropped-confidence.jpgSuccess is sometimes a matter of good goal setting

If you set yourself an achievable goal you can succeed. If you succeed your Confidence grows. If your Confidence grows you set yourself something more ambitious – and you keep going no matter what. The failure teaches you and the success empowers you.

Hypnotherapy and NLP helps you with finding how to focus and concentrate on finding positive outcomes

I am a hypnotherapist based in Ipswich Suffolk and with Hypnotherapy practices in Hadleigh Suffolk and Colchester Essex. I have been motivating people in those practices, in Harley Street, and at places of Business, Drama Schools and on TV. So I strongly believe that you too can find your success by changing your mindset.

If you think negatively studies show that you will probably get what you seek:

“I will never get that job!” No, you won’t if you program yourself not to have a chance.

If you think positively you start to look for solutions not problems:

Some people are very good at telling you all the reasons why something won’t work. People are less good at finding and focussing on all the reasons why it might work or will work. If you are solution focussed and you learn how to “go into the zone”, where you relax and look for solutions, then your powerful experience will help you find the solution.

Indian Proverb: “How do you eat an Elephant? In small bites.. ”

You break any challenge down into chunks and find resolutions for each challenge. Hypnotherapy and NLP teaches you how to do this. This is useful because many people are paralysed by fear or anxiety or stress.

Buddha: “Fear is the Mind Killer”

If we are dominated by a fear of what MIGHT go wrong we don’t take positive action based on sound judgement. We go into fight or flight mode and become unable to take positive action. If we learn how to relax breathe and go into the zone – we will resolve most problems – or as I prefer to say “challenges”.

Change your mindset and change your Life – you can LEARN how to find your success by making it happen.

Tall to me for FREE to learn how to find YOUR success: 07875720623



Graham Howes Advanced Hypnotherapy and NLP in Ipswich and Colchester



Author: grammy

I am an ex Harley Street Hypnotherapist working using hypnosis and NLP for hypnotherapy in Colchester, Frinton near Clacton in Tendring Essex and in Ipswich and Hadleigh Suffolk and by Skype worldwide with clients in London Barcelona and Florida to name but three. Also available Home Visits and onsite visits to Business and Theatre, TV studios and Film Sets from a Hypnotic specialist. I have also been a Teacher, Actor, Theatre Director, Writer and Singer for more than 35 years as well as a hypnotist.

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