5 Hypnosis Myths Explained in relation to HypnotherapyÂ
Hypnosis has been around for most of our time as humans in some way or other. The Shaman would use Trance for Healing and Instruction. Greeks and Egyptians had versions of Dream Temples of Healing.
In the last few hundred years our understanding of trance and hypnotic techniques and applications of hypnosis for therapy have increased. Despite this many people still think some pretty strange things about hypnosis involving something very like Hypnosis..
Here are my top five things that people have got wrong about hypnosis â€¦.
Hypnosis Myth Number One: All Hypnosis Is The Same
There is a huge variety in the different styles and techniques that come under the banner of hypnosis. You could see two different hypnotherapists for the same issue and they may take completely different approaches to your issue:
The two main approaches when using hypnosis are â€˜authoritarianâ€™ and â€˜permissiveâ€™ –
Authoritarian hypnotic techniques are direct and instructive and is not for everyone – not everyone wants to be told what to do.
Permissive hypnosis is subtle and works with the client to find a way forward utilising the clients own ability to see their issue in a new light. We work to find strategies to change the script!
Hypnosis Myth Number Two: Subliminal Messages Work While I Am Asleep
This misconception has lingered for a while, not just in the field of hypnotherapy but also in advertising. By definition you are unaware of subliminal messages. If you do become aware of them then it isnâ€™t subliminal.
If this method did work then if you fell asleep watching the news you should still know what happened in the world when you woke up. This does not happen.
However, when you are in trance you are not asleep. It may feel that way because that seems the closest thing to your experience. Quite a few clients tell me that they fall asleep and when I gently point out that they are losing weight /stopped smoking / moved beyond the issue they have to concede that something must have been happenings! Actually trance is a state of focussed awareness. When Jessica Ennis Hill is participating in a race she talks of going into the Zone. She means this state of focussed awareness similar to when you watch a film or sports event and don’t notice anything but the event that you are “lost” in. When you are in trance it is possible to hear messages and ideas without having conscious awareness of them. With this knowledge you could then find your thoughts, feelings and behaviour changing. This happens because you stop referring to the old habits and cravings and start looking at your Life in a new way.
Hypnosis Myth Number Three: Not Everyone Can Be Hypnotised
Everyone can and does go into trance, pretty much every single day. Every time you really concentrate and drift away distractions you are utilising trance. A good hypnotherapist who takes the time to find out about you as a person and who has experience and a range of skills in helping people will have a much better chance of helping someone be in a hypnotic state of mind.
There is also an element of co-operation though. If you donâ€™t want to be hypnotised you could sit there with your eyes closed and in your head just say â€œNo, I CANNOT be hypnotised. Iâ€™m not going to drift off, Iâ€™m not going to go into trance!â€ and it almost certainly wonâ€™t happen. But then what is the point in going to see a hypnotherapist if you are not willing to be hypnotised. It isn’t Mind Control and you won’t be doing the funky chicken in the therapy room! When a good hypnotherapist works with someone who wants to make an achievable change there is a great chance that change will happen.
Hypnosis Myth Number Four: You Are MADE To Go Into Trance By Someone Else
“All hypnosis is self hypnosis.” You hypnotise yourself, all the time. For example when you convince yourself an injection will hurt and and imagine just how painful it will be before the event you make it much more likely to hurt. This is a sort of negative self hypnosis. A hypnotherapist will help you to go into trance but wonâ€™t make you do anything. Think of it as more of a partnership between you and your hypnotherapist.
Hypnosis Myth Number Five: You Are Not In Control When You Are In Trance
This is a big fear of some people and can mean that they don’t ask for the help of a hypnotherapist when it could be the most appropriate and useful method of personal change. The reason they donâ€™t ask for help is because they are afraid that they wonâ€™t be in control.
Some people worry that they will blurt out their secrets when in trance. Some people worry that they wonâ€™t like the feeling of having someone else making their decisions for them (which doesnâ€™t happen anyway).
This kind of thinking often affects people who describe themselves as â€œa bit of a control freakâ€. The truth of the matter is that people who like to be in control actually often make the best hypnotic subjects as they know themselves, their thought and feelings in a lot of detail which means that they can provide great insight into their situation which helps the hypnotherapist find the most appropriate and effective method of help.
In any case a Professional Hypnotherapist should be on a Professional Register like the GHR and regulated by the General Hypnotherapy Standards Council (GHSC). Some are also approved by the CNHC Complementary National Healthcare – a gold standard of approved practitioners.
I use Hypnotherapy with Hypnoanalysis and NLP to help you most efficiently change your life and move forward free of those habits traumas restrictions fears phobias or issue.
If you have any questions about hypnosis and hypnotherapy which are not answered here or on my FAQ page please do get in touch using the details on my contact page.
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Graham Howes Professional Advanced HypnotherapIST – Hypnosis and NLP in Ipswich Suffolk Colchester Essex and by Skype Worldwide – GHR Registered GHSC Regulated CNHC Approved